The Difference between Looking Attractive and being Attractive.
Introduction Society sends a very clear message to women and this is that in order to attract a man you must look physically attractive – have a pretty face, curves, breasts, and be slim at the same time. The trouble is that by definition, the majority of women fit within the range of average looking. So does this mean that only a small percentage of women who look like swimsuit models or Playboy Playmates are ever going to have men falling over them, while the rest of the female population are left to fight over the scraps (or miss out altogether)? Most women feel that the answer to this question is a resounding “yes” (to either a greater or lesser extent). As a result, they put in a huge amount of time and effort to choose just the right clothes and then again in the bathroom before every time they go out. This is in order to give themselves a fighting chance of being one of the chosen few. Since our society tells them that their value as women is completely deter...