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Stay Bless.

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At this Age.

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Unbelievable at this age.

Flavour N'Abania gives back to Society.

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N'Abania crooner, Flavour on Thursday, July 7, donated food items to some widows in Enugu. The singer, who is currently on set in the Coal city, wrote:  "Charity begins at home. I had the honour and pleasure of visiting and spending some quality time with a strong force of women, here today in Enugu. These women, who are widowed, stand united in their zest for life and support for one another. I was truly touched by their stories and will never forget this visit. Photo credit: Flavour Nabania/Facebook

Afternoon kindness.

The photo has been making round on Facebook, twitter and Instagram since yesterday.

I am not HIV.l am Living with HIV.Writes HIV Activist.

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Lebogang Brenda Motsumi is a 25-year-old HIV positive mother of one. The HIV activist, who is now working towards an Aids free generation shared this inspiring words on Facebook:  "Good morning, my name is Lebogang Brenda Motsumi aka African Queen. I am NOT HIV, I am LIVING with HIV. I am not the virus, the virus lives in me. I am not defined by HIV, but I define HIV" Brenda found out she was HIV positive in 2009 after she read an article by a popular guy whom she dated.  In the article, the man revealed his status and said he was sick. She got tested and was diagnosed with HIV. However, she lived in denial until 2011 when she finally accepted her status on discovering that she was pregnant. She took ARVs to protect her child.She went back to partying and drinking after the birth of her daughter. "Since I was not looking sick I thought there was nothing wrong so I went back to living my life until I got very sick in August and I came to the decision that HIV is real a...

Why Trying to please Everyone Doesn't Work.

You attract people less. I had always looked up to anyone who had the strength to go out and be themselves. But all too quickly that admiration would turn to adulation. I found myself never speaking up, always going along with whatever they said and did, the eager puppy on their heels. And then, when I looked dispassionately at how they really saw me, there was one overriding word that hit me—weak. Strong people seek strong people to be around, so it was not surprising they were polite but always chose their true friends elsewhere. 2. You love yourself less. Because those very people you wanted to admire, respect, and love you now reject you, you tell yourself that you cannot be a lovable person. In desperation you increase your people-pleasing behavior and it becomes a depressing spiral. The gap from the way you act to the way you really want to act widens with every people-pleasing act. This leaves you feeling disappointed and ashamed of who you have become. 3. You become ...

The difference between Privacy and Secrecy.

“The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.” ~Ernest Hemingway When I was a child I was part of a family that didn’t communicate beyond “pass the salt.” There was no confiding of fears, sharing of hopes, and encouraging each other’s dreams. It was a superficial and empty existence but one that was completely normal to me. Fast forward numerous years, add in three children and a loving partner of my own; now I try to create a childhood for my own kids that is a polar opposite to my own experience. To have proper conversations with them every day, to make sure they know just how loved and important they are, not just to me, but that the world is a better place for having them in it. It can be really hard not to provide stock answers to my partner’s questions. I am “fine,” all is “okay,”‘ I have “everything” I need. To realize that I can contribute to a conversation—that I am...

Dakore Egbuson Akande Look Flawless.

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Nollywood actress Dakore Akande rocks cornrows in this beautiful makeup photo. 

Change your Style.....Another Style...

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You make me scream.........

Zip your Mouth...

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Going to buy a house? Close your mouth.Going to buy a car? Close your mouth.Going on a trip? Close your mouth.Was promoted at work? Close your mouth.99% of time that your dreams don't come true is because of your language,we were wrong to share our project with people who claim to be friends.The envy greed eye is worse than satan,so close your mouth and let GOD act so every thing can happen at the right time.