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2017 Family Portraits...

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Beautiful family photos of the Adenugbas. According to their IG page, they have been married for 12 years and blessed with 3 lovely daughters and a handsome son. More photos after the cut.. 
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How Can l Raise My Value...

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Michael Jordan was born in 1963, in the slums of Brooklyn, New York. He had four  siblings and his father's earnings were not sufficient to provide for the whole family. He grew up in a poor neighbourhood. Exposed to mindless violence and heavy discrimination in the slums, he saw for himself only a hopeless future. His father saw in Michael, a lost soul and decided to do something. He gave Michael, who was 13 years old, a piece of used clothing and asked: "What do you think the value of this outfit would be?" Jordan replied,"Maybe one dollar." His father asked, "Can you sell it for two dollars? If you can sell it, it would mean that you are a big help to your family." Jordan nodded his head, "I'll try, but no guarantee that I'll be successful." Jordan carefully washed the cloth clean. Because they didn't have an iron, to smoothen the cloth, he levelled it with a clothes brush on a flat board, then kept it in the sun to dr...

Slay with Me...

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How to Address Rejection in Your Relationship.

How to Address Rejection in Your Relationship Some people feel hesitant to discuss feeling rejected with their partner. Others might have tried discussing their feelings but since the problem has persisted, feel reluctant to do so again. Indeed, once your self-esteem sustains a certain amount of damage through repeated rejections, you are likely to feel too vulnerable to risk initiating another talk, either because you fear doing so will only confirm your partner's lack of attraction and leave you feeling even more devastated—or because you worry it will start a major fight. However, staying silent and tolerating or accommodating the situation will not make you feel better; instead, the rejections will only continue to wear away at your self-esteem and happiness. Despite how risky it might feel, bringing up the topic, as clearly and as assertively as possible (which is difficult but doable), is the only way to begin a dialogue about change and make your partner aware of the emot...

Sexual Rejection From Your Partner Damages Your Self Exteem.

Sexual Rejection From Your Partner Damages Your Self-Esteem Do any of these this sound familiar? You finally have a romantic night out with your spouse or partner but they drink too much and fall asleep on the bed as soon as you get home. You’re on vacation and away from the stresses of daily life but your partner claims they’re still too exhausted to have sex. Your partner consistently goes to bed either before or after you do. The bathroom or kitchen might be the most ‘dangerous’ rooms in the house for sustaining physical injuries but as far as self-esteem goes, the bedroom is far worse. Small sexual rejections are common in relationships as no two people are always going to be in the mood at the exact same time. However, when your partner consistently avoids sex and intimacy, or on the rare occasion when they are willing, are obviously doing so reluctantly — the accumulations of repeated rejections are likely to have a big impact on your self-esteem...