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Fear your worst Enemy Risk your best Friend..

Everything you ever wanted is on the other side of fear.  “It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent that survives. It is the one that is the most adaptable to change.” Darwin said it best and his quote resonates well for the way we conduct our choices in life. Change. Unfamiliarity. Opportunity. Risk. All four verbs bring out a common element in all of us – fear. Whether it’s stage fright or we are given the opportunity to move across the country to begin a dream job with no familiar faces, most of us will become paralyzed with fear. Change isn’t a favored term in the human vocabulary. It entails leaving what we have in our steady routine to explore the unknown and unfamiliar. We are afraid to act on opportunity, because we are uncertain; we are blinded of the path ahead. Most of us would prefer the security of our already-proven static routines. They bring us financial support, and keep our families situat...

60 Breakup Lines...

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60 break up lines – We all know that all relationships won’t end up in marriage. So sometimes you might have to make that hard decision of ending a relationship. Here are some break up lines to adopt when breaking up. 1. It’s not you it’s me (The Most Popular) 2. you are too good for me 3. you deserve better 4. My parents asked me to marry from our tribe 5. I’m not ready for marriage now 6. I don’t wanna waste your time 7. let’s take a break 8. I need to focus on my studies 9. Can’t take good care of you 10. Something about us just doesnt feel right 11. I dont know what i want right now 12. I like you a lot but i dont think i really loveyou 13. This relationship isnt working 14. I need to work on myself before getting into any commitment 15. I need some time off 16. i’m not in the right frame of mind right now to date 17. I think we are better off...

This is how Smart Women Start their Day.

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It is common place to see a lot of strong and independent women get stressed and stop paying attention to themselves, while people on the side-lines look at their appearances, and make nonsensical assumptions.Butthe Nigerian woman endure a lot of stress and this can lead to neglect.  BUT, WOMAN BE SMART! Work hard at your job and come out on top, but do not forget to drink a cup of ShapeYou Slimming Coffee every morning.   Because a fit body and an active mind is what would take you through the day, and that is why you have to take the ShapeYou Slimming Coffee daily!  ShapeYou Slimming Coffee is made with ingredients like L -Carnitine, which helps with weight loss, and keeps your body fit and full of energy! This 100% organic coffee has other important ingredients like Brazilian black coffee and important Vitamins that helps to enhance your mind! Plus it takes as little as 14 days to start seeing weight loss results! You shouldtake care of yourself and stay...

The power of Silence...

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Silence has a certain energy to it like no other energy source. It has the power to get people to think and to act, it can help slow the mind down, and it is a powerful ally in the likes of counseling and  life coaching . The trouble with silence is that many people feel the need to fill the void of silence with needless chatter, with TV, with Music, with noise of some kind. Silence can be disconcerting and can make people feel uncomfortable and alone, that’s why the world is filled with TV’s that have been left on when nobody is watching, for background noise. What happens when there is silence? We turn our thoughts and focus inwards and gain the power we need to refuel our minds. Our ego is temporarily switched off or at least made to be quiet for a bit, and we start to see the real world as it should be. Our thoughts get in the way of our reality sometimes and we don’t see the beauty of the world around us. When there is silence there is time for introspect...

Why Men go Silent and fail to Share or Communicate....

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Man are action orientated. Men have fears of secrets revealed. Primitive man are born hunters and it explains many of the reasons why silence is safe. Have you ever wondered why men go silent? I know every woman at sometime in her life has wondered the real answer to his “lack of  communication .” If you’ve ever wondered, asked, or talked about anything below then I’m urging you to read on because I’m going to give you the real truth behind his silence…and all of your questions… “Why won’t he talk to me?” “Why do guys hide their feelings?” “Why won’t he tell me he loves me?” “Why are men seem afraid to talk about their feelings?” “Every time I want to talk about where our relationship is going he gets angry and cold.” “All he does is nod and say ‘uh hu’ and then goes right back to his game or whatever he is doing. What does he always ignore me when I just want him to listen?” “I ask him an important question which only requires a simple answer and it’s like he doesn’t e...