Do l always have to say yes......

Please post my mail anonymously Anty. I came across while searching for info on courtship matters. I have since been hooked like glue. God bless everyone on the blog cuz I have learnt so much. I'm newly married and we had a celibate courtship because we are both Christians. My husband and I saw ourselves the very first time on our wedding night and I have a little problem. His libido is much much higher and it's not funny, There was a day I felt so sore I couldn't even wash myself well. Most times I want to say "NO" but fear. I heard so much already about wives pushing their husbands out by refusing them and I don't want to be a victim. I love him, want to make him happy but can't cope with that all the time. How do I handle my husband's demands? Can I say No sometimes and still have a successful marriage? Please help.

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