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Excessive Attention Seeking and Drama Addiction.

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Some behavioral problems seem to plague compulsive overeaters and substance abusers more than other groups. Excess attention seeking appears to be one of them. All humans require attention. Without getting and giving attention, you could not have a social species. Getting attention is necessary for life’s vital enterprises and can be the difference between life and death in a crisis. Therefore, not getting adequate attention can threaten the quality and sustainability of life. [1] Thus, getting functional social attention is understandable. However, extreme attention seekers go to unhealthy lengths that are driven by emotional desperation.[2]   Excessive attention seeking is not a character flaw. It is a brain wiring response to early developmental  trauma caused by neglect.[3] The developing brain observes its  environment  and wires itself accordingly to survive in that world that it presumes will be like those experiences.[4] Newborns are extremely dependen...

Managing Stress.

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You may feel there’s nothing you can do about stress. The bills won’t stop coming, there will never be more hours in the day, and your work and family responsibilities will always be demanding. But you have more control over stress than you might think. Stress management is all about taking charge: of your lifestyle, thoughts, emotions, and the way you deal with problems. No matter how stressful your life seems, there are steps you can take to relieve the pressure and regain control. What is stress management? We all respond to stress differently so, there’s no “one size fits all” solution to managing stress. But if you feel like the stress in your life is out of control, it’s time to take action. Stress management can teach you healthier ways to cope with stress, help you reduce its harmful effects, and prevent stress from spiraling out of control again in the future. No matter how powerless you may feel in the face of stress, you still have control over your lifestyle, thoughts, ...

As Shared by a Fan.....

I don't know if you've noticed kids lately are obsese unlike our time when we were very skinny... Growing up we had bicycles, big play courtyards or a neighbors place where we can play Game box or Suwe  Ten Ten or Ski ski Lo Lo..  Or make a big circle like your mothers cooking pot or skip all we want,  play naile😂😂😂😢😆😲😜...ecetra ecetra So there was enough exercises to keep us skinny as dandy..  Kids these days seat in the couch after school either watching cartoons or playing subway surfers or candy crushing or temple running while eating pizza  😂😂😂😂 All these lead to obesity.. Don't I just love and miss our era💯😂

Forgivness:Letting go of grudges and bittetness.

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Nearly everyone has been hurt by the actions or words of another. Perhaps your mother criticized your parenting skills, your colleague sabotaged a project or your partner had an affair. These wounds can leave you with lasting feelings of anger, bitterness or even vengeance. But if you don't practice forgiveness, you might be the one who pays most dearly. By embracing forgiveness, you can also embrace peace, hope, gratitude and joy. Consider how forgiveness can lead you down the path of physical, emotional and spiritual well-being. What is forgiveness? Generally, forgiveness is a decision to let go of resentment and thoughts of revenge. The act that hurt or offended you might always remain a part of your life, but forgiveness can lessen its grip on you and help you focus on other, more positive parts of your life. Forgiveness can even lead to feelings of understanding, empathy and compassion for the one who hurt you. Forgiveness doesn't mean that you deny the other person...

Figure of speech wahala.

CLASS TEACHER - I returned from work, opened my door and saw 50 million naira on my bed. Assuming you were in my shoes, what will you do?" asks the teacher. Segun : I will bite your toes until you faint. I will then come out from your shoes and take all the money! TEACHER: Fool! You can't literally be inside my shoes. *It's a figure of speech.* Segun : You can't literally open your door and see 50 million naira on your bed in this Buhari Economy? Who will keep it there? *That's a figure of impossible speech.* 😂😂😂😂😂😂

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