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How to Walk the Walk..

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This is a sponsored post. These are very good recommendations for a man’s role in moving around in public with a beloved lady. As mentioned, a man should walk on the side of greatest risk of harm or unpleasantness, protecting the lady with his body as needed. A Gentleman should always open the car door for a woman, holding her hand if needed for balance, as she sits. The reverse is also important, that the man should exit the vehicle, open the woman’s door and offer her a hand to step up as she desires. In my dealings with ladies/women, a chivalrous attitude and action has brought the greatest positive response. Keeping her from harm by walking on the street-side to protect her from muddy splashes and rogue drivers with your own body, ‘handing’ her into and out of a car as you two move about the world are all ways to build a shell of protection by you so she feels safe when she is with you. You may need to steer her away from the curb as you walk, you may n...

The Etiquettes.....

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Great Honore de Balzac in one of his novels, depicts depreciation made by a wealthy flamboyant young man and his fancy horse. With his color, figure and attitude, the horse was so provocative that even the man’s girl thought that the horse was an attack on a good taste. Today we rarely see a horse on the street, but this introduction is not about horses but the point is that we should not attract attention of others neither with attitude, nor with clothes or appearance. This should be the first and foremost rule when walking down the street in order to avoid the staring looks. Although today in the modern world we try to break the rules of the ordinary, sometimes it is nice to follow the rules. Manners and etiquette are having it’s revival, believe it or not. In this article we will bring you several nice rules on how to walk the street when in the company of someone, being it a woman or a man. Some of the rules mentioned below are self-explanatory but we should menti...

You Deserve perfect skin.

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Every lady wants to stay young and beautiful her whole life! That is why women have always looked for ways to make their skin radiant, smooth, and beautiful. Getting flawless skin is not about changing your complexion or using expensive toners but it is simply getting flawless skin, free of blemishes, dark patches or acne!                                                                                         Achieving that perfect skin is no longer rocket science when nature has already supplied licorice extract! Licorice extract contains gl...

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How to get Over Someone You Can't Have.

I was giving a lecture about  love's psychology  in one of the education centers in Enugu and when i started talking about getting over someone you can't have one of the attendants raised her hand and asked for the permission to talk. The lady kept saying in a very romantic tone, "No this is not love, this can't be, the mind is not responsible for love, this is not love, this is not love" The tone was really soft to the extent that i felt that the lady will hug the chair in front of her while talking! Sadly this lady was like millions of other people who have been completely brain washed by the media to the extent that they become completely shocked when they hear someone talking about scientific facts that explains love. The lady was in a state of shock and denial, one part of her wanted to believe what she was hearing and the other part was afraid to do so. If she believed the words she will recover from the breakup but in the same time she will admit that al...

SMELLING MOUTH AND STINKY ARMPIT..

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Need a mint? Everyone knows the ramifications of having bad breath or extremely stinky armpits. No more friends. No more business deals. No more clients. No more girlfriend/boyfriend. What you need is a confidant to tell you that you really need to check your phermones with a doctor because that smell is not attracting anyone. Breath Check A quick way to tell is to blow into your cupped hands or lick the back of your hand and smell it during a one to two minute period. If you’re into torture, scrape the back of your tongue and let it simmer to the available oxygen. After, have a person whom you dislike smell it. Armpit Check Apply nose under arm. Sniff. Confirm by wiping and smelling, maybe even licking (if you are one of those people who needs a triple check confirmation). As a doctor, I’m here to tell you that bad breath/stinky armpits start from your mouth and addressing it may even lead to looking into the other end as well. Everything in between is definitely a factor...

The power of Reflection...

In a world where it seems like there is never enough time, it’s tempting to relegate things like self-observation to the back burner. After all, when there’s so much to be done, who has time for contemplation? Well, if you’re serious about doing something truly significant with your life, then I’d argue that  you  do. Need a push in the right direction? Pick up a copy of  Real Power: Stages of Personal Power in Organizations   by Janet Hagberg (Sheffield, 2002; one that I’ve recommended to hundreds of my friends, colleagues,because it lays out such a compelling explanation of how people get stuck in positions of powerlessness and dissatisfaction, and how they can start moving toward more rewarding and evolved modes of empowerment. Stage 1: Powerlessness  — This is where we begin life as infants, and unfortunately, it’s also where a lot of us remain. Having no power of our own, we depend on others for what we ne...