THE MOMENT.
Controversial Topic.
A Man Washing a Woman's Pant.
This Topic is very broad and controversial bearing in mind that I am a Woman. People still sits together and have discussions on topics that makes them laugh,serious,angry,fear ,having a mindset that the other party is bias either from the way things are said ,and move on from the discussion feeling great that your opinion is accepted.
This beautiful sunny afternoon,I walked into an office at Warri in Delta State, l was so surprise to see Men and Women discussing about this Topic: lF IT IS RIGHT FOR A MAN TO WASH A WOMAN'S PANT.?or WHY CANT A MAN WASH A WOMAN's PANT....I can feel you seriously,....to you' are they crazy?..NO... they are not.
I took a sit and wash with keen interest on how there argue and argue with Laughter while people raise their points to prove that nothing was wrong with topic.
I was asked by one of them, what was my view on their discussion,I categorically told them,what ever discussion you are having about such topic ,remember we are in Nigeria and in an African society that has Norms and Values and it tends to contradicts some of our views on personal Levels.Society seems to frown at some personal journey we tend to take.
I hurriedly check what is the difference between Panties and undies,because I was curious while some use the Word PANTIES others Used the Word UNDIES.
Undies:Undies is what you wear under your clothes against your skin usually this include bra,Panties,T.shirt,briefs,thongs,boxers.
A panty is normally made of softer cotton.when compared to the men underwear.panty usually have shades and prints on them,which gives them a feminine touch.............
I decided to move around and get to know their view personally and how they feel by comments coming from the men's angle.......let's here from my them.
Here Mrs Kika:
There is nothing wrong with a man washing a woman's undies.
Mrs Endurance: she insist nothing is wrong washing it if their couple(meaning you can wash the softer part like I earlier mentioned).
Mr Wolex: (A crown prince from ljebuland).He was very honest and he stated it clearly that if he stumbled on it ,there is no problem with that.
Lacious Labekion:(An elegant Lady) tall and dark with this look on her face,if the two have a relationship ,their is nothing wrong for the man to wash her pants,.
Mr Shola: its own view is that,it is an abomination for a woman to say that ,Aluuuuuu in lgbo voice and it is very wrong for a man to do that..
Mr Gift: His reaction was don't ask me question,it is wrong for a man to do that,if a woman tells him that,confronting her you are a lazy.....
Mrs Efe: (Beautiful)If a man can give headie down below,she finds nothing wrong in him washing what she uses in covering what he enjoys. Gbagam.
Dr Malik: He likes below but not to the extent of washing a woman's pant.
Fabulously Lenora Paul: she finds nothing wrong with it.
Mrs Karen:she is of same view with Lenora ,nothing is wrong with it.. ..
Mr Kingsley:
He was the last person I asked because he was not around when the discussion was going on,but is view was interesting to note,He stated it clearly that depending on the situation at hand,and it should not be an everyday thing.
I asked him if he was speaking from a a Traditional angle or is own personal experience!He told me that in the Nigeria tradiotional society a lot of culture does not agree with our own view ,because every place has is own cultural heritage ,personally you can so things with your own discretion.
After this great views from that office,it might interest you to know that,even while they argued about the topic,they still find each other interesting ...I finished all that I went there for and I gained a lot of knowledge from them,that no matter the situations we find ourselves in Life,we are stronger people .
Thank you for reading.
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